Victim or Victor? Which Narrative Do You Share?
Have you ever played the part of the victim in your life? I have yet to meet anyone who hasn’t! I never think of myself as a victim, yet I have played the part far too often, and I bet you have too.
The goal is having relationships in which anger, sadness, and fear aren’t prominent players, right? But when they are, see what you can do to get clear on who you want in your creative, collaborative, professional, and personal relationships!
Victim, Victor, or Villian?
Think again, what areas of life are you blaming or feeling used in? As you recognize these and shift to the victor mentality, you will experience unbelievable freedom! I hope once you get a taste for it, you will begin to make it a lifelong practice and teach
I leave you with some of David Emerald’s wisdom in the form of the following quote. I ask you to consider what he says closely. It can be the beginning of helping you create a better life with far less drama!
“Victims may be defensive, submissive, over-accommodating to others, passive-aggressive in conflict, dependent on others for self-worth, overly sensitive, even manipulative. They’re often angry, resentful, and envious, feeling unworthy or ashamed about their circumstances. Have you ever felt or acted this way?” David Emerald Womeldorff
Much Love and Much Respect,
Angela
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Angela M. Odom is a life and leadership coach, founder of The Better U Project brand, podcast host, proud Army veteran and the author of BRONCO STRONG: A Memoir of the Last Deployed Personnel Services Battalion and Golom's Magical Gamers as well as a contributing author to the book, "Camouflaged Sisters: Leadership Through The Eyes of Senior Military Women Leaders".
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